常看到和聽到一些很好與愛情有關的文字，最近也在報章上看到一篇，但找不到下載，唯有手打部份出來，如果你們想看全文的話，話我知！
這是描述女性的感情多一些：
“。。。。。她很明白碰到的男人究竟是不是她的所需，她明白維繫一個關係不需要大張旗鼓，只[潤物細無聲]就好，她明白激情容易破損，而快樂需要細心品味，而不可透支，她明白她有足夠資本把握局勢，因為男人需要的無非是母親和情人的混合體，她明白那靈魂默契的一剎那是何等珍貴，她明白好的關係是平實而風清雲淡。
愛是一種能力，需要歲月和閱歷來磨礪。而假使少女時代的她遇見同樣這個男人一百次，也恐怕會失去他的。所以說，一種真實美滿的愛情，最好是出現在當事人成熟的年齡段，而毋須趁早。”
7 comments:
親身經歷過。
answered your post on my blog.
Yes, timing is very important. When I first met my boyfriend, he had to leave for U.S. in 2 months' time. However, we thought, if we met earlier, we wouldn't know how to appreciate each other.
想起劉若英的《後來》：
後來，我終於學會了如何去愛，
可是你，早已遠去，消失在人海。
畢竟，人大了經歷更多，會更懂得去欣賞和珍惜。
swj, 唔...妳的體驗也很多!
jy, 睇唔倒呀?
ruth, 好多嘢都係整定的!
carrie, 喜歡那歌詞!
some friends say so.. don't know why... some can read it and some can't. maybe you try again later.
William: Love is passion, obsession, someone you can't live without. If you don't start with that, what are you going to end up with? Fall head over heels. I say find someone you can love like crazy and who'll love you the same way back. And how do you find him? Forget your head and listen to your heart. I'm not hearing any heart. Run the risk, if you get hurt, you'll come back. Because, the truth is there is no sense living your life without this. To make the journey and not fall deeply in love - well, you haven't lived a life at all. You have to try. Because if you haven't tried, you haven't lived.
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Joe Black: I don't care Bill. I love her.
William Parrish: How perfect for you - to take whatever you want because it pleases you. That's not love.
Joe Black: Then what is it?
William Parrish: Some aimless infatuation which, for the moment, you feel like indulging - it's missing everything that matters.
Joe Black: Which is what?
William Parrish: Trust, responsibility, taking the weight for your choices and feelings, and spending the rest of your life living up to them. And above all, not hurting the object of your love.
Joe Black: So that's what love is according to William Parrish?
William Parrish: Multiply it by infinity, and take it to the depth of forever, and you will still have barely a glimpse of what I'm talking about.
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